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         俗话说:马善被人骑,人善被人欺。很多人以为,善良就是要被人欺负的。其实,这是误解了善良的含义。

  所谓的善良,百度百科的说法是心地纯洁,纯真温厚,没有恶意,和善,心地好。指和善而不怀恶意的人。对人没有恶意,传递给别人的是友善,正义,亲切,不可侵犯的信息。别人受到感染,只要不是反社会人格,极端偏执的人,一般都能给予积极正面的回馈。但是善良的人也是勇敢自信的,他们敢于表达自己的意见,敢于维护自己的合法权益,敢于对欺负自己的人说“不”,他们不做伤害别人的事情,遇到需要帮助的会伸出援手。同时,善良的人是乐观的,对于别人无意的侵犯,他们会宽宏大量,不去计较。他们懂得感恩,知道回报;他们有较高的责任感,不仅为自己负责,还为他人奉献自己力所能及的力量,而不是不顾自己,一味的讨好别人。他们是高情商的人。当我们走在街上,看到容光焕发、双眼有神、挺胸抬头、经常微笑的人,我们就知道,这才是真正的善良。

 而我们所说的“人善被人欺”的“善”,一种胆小怯懦,不敢正面勇敢的表达自己合理的意见,怕说出来别人会反击报复,怕伤害到别人,怕自己受伤而不敢维护自己的合法权益,怕自己一点点言行得罪了人,总是担惊受怕,提心吊胆,处处看别人脸色,处处讨好别人。当我们看到脸上挂着谦卑的笑,缩着脖子,佝偻着肩膀,眼睛几乎是不敢正视别人的人,大概就是这一类。如阿Q便是这一类,他们的外表其实在昭示:我很弱小,来欺负我吧!当然善良的人是不会这么做,但是好表现的,或者是自卑但又装得很强势的人,他们就会下得其手了。懦弱的人活得窝囊,但是内心却充满怨愤,他们会通过其他途径来发泄自己的愤怒,可能偷偷摸摸做点小恶事,当然他们不敢做大坏事的,因为他们又极其在乎面子。或者把自己的情绪发泄到伴侣和孩子身上,这就是有些人在外面是老好人在家里却是噩梦的原因了。当然,也有些人通过物质依赖来暂时麻醉自己,比如有的人酗酒、吸毒,或者沉迷一些变态的黄色网站等等。

     陈素娟,国家二级心理咨询师、家庭教育讲师、关工委特聘讲师,真诚助您清扫阴霾、迎接阳光。

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