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       做外科医生久了,须要练得铁石心肠,见了鲜血、外伤,剖肚挖肠自是眼不晃,心不跳。做医生的朋友谈起他们在解剖室学习的经历,在我们的讶然之中,她是一脸的坦然。

      做咨询师久了,需要站在中立的位置上,体察到来访者的内心,进行人本主义关怀,遵照罗杰斯大师的教导:看待来访者的问题,要像看待日落一样。我们全力以赴,全情以赴,不为结果而纠结。但是,当来访者解开心中郁结的情绪,找到了一种看问题的新视角并为之改变而欣喜的时候,我会有发自内心的喜悦。

      在525咨询留言咨询中,有一位来访者在咨询结束的时候提到“我要承受的实在太多太多,希望时间可以带走一切,心里的话再也不敢对任何人说起,当我真的无法承受的时候第一个就只能想到您,姐姐虽然没有见过你,可看着你的头像会掉下眼泪,......长长的舒一口气,说出来的感觉真好,娟祝您一切安好!我也会加油的!”看到这样的文字,我的心中蓄满了感动,一股暖暖的情愫在心底流淌。在一位来访者心中,他们把无限的信任给了咨询师,我们唯有接纳他们,理解他们,内心真诚的倾听他们的心底最隐私的秘密,帮助他们点亮迷雾中的那座灯塔,相信他们有能力完成自我重建,这就是最好的治疗,也是人性光辉在闪耀。

       虽然,我也遭受过来访者的“欺骗”,当我看到来访者着急地想要解决心中困扰而又无法立刻支付的时候,我有时会很信任的告诉他们:我相信你,您明天可以打过来。但是,时间证明他们没有这样做。没有关系,我心里坦然,因为我无愧于心。我只是想告诉他们:免费的咨询是几乎没有效果的,您无法重视,也无需为它付出什么,所以,您不会按照咨询师的指导去行事。世界上真的没有免费的午餐,世界上只有没有营养的午餐。但是,当我的来访者没有辜负我的信任,践行自己诚信的时候,我的内心充满了感激和被尊重的感动。

       当一位位来访者走来的时候,我知道我心里的责任,我会用真诚对待您。我也会真诚的告诉您:当您勇敢的来求助,就说明您是正常人,您只是遇到了一些困扰,但您是堂堂正正的正常人!

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