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                   有快乐的父母才会有快乐的孩子

    快乐是开启心灵的钥匙,快乐的孩子永远健康快乐。智慧的父母一定拥有制造快乐的能力,在生活中孩子受到父母快乐的暗示,也会用高级的“快乐智慧”为自己的人生增添快乐的元素。

 

    让自己的孩子快乐,是我们每个做父母的心愿,也是父母赐予孩子最珍贵的礼物。父母把生命给予孩子,同时也有责任把孩子培养成健康快乐的个体。

    父母是孩子的第一任老师,是孩子学习的榜样,其一言一行无不对孩子起着极大的暗示作用。父母的自我调节能力差就容易形成不良的情绪反应,而这种情绪自然也对孩子产生消极的暗示,长此以往,我们做父母的就会扼杀孩子的童真和快乐。

    大强最近一段时间心情很郁闷。当了多年副科长,轮也轮到自己提升了,结果却被刚参加工作几年的小张抢了先,虽然小张大学毕业,但大强心里就是不服气。回到家,大强看哪儿都不顺眼。儿子小强放学回来,一推门,小强笑着大喊:“爸爸,我回来了!”大强一看,气不打一处来,劈头就骂:“兔崽子,嚷嚷什么,给我老实点儿!又回来晚了,跑哪儿疯玩儿去了?”小强不知道发生了什么事儿,撅着嘴回到自己房间。

    父母因为生活工作上的挫折导致情绪不好,就将怨气发泄到孩子身上,这种做法是极端不可取的。孩子在什么样的环境中长大他就是什么样的孩子,父母的消极情绪会给孩子带来消极的影响,这就是所谓的消极暗示。受到这种气氛的暗示,孩子就会把一切过错归咎到自己身上,认为这一切的糟糕都是自己造成的,从而自我贬低,对外界环境产生怀疑、逃避心理,形成自卑退缩的人格,甚至丧失感知快乐的能力。

    冰心是家中的长女,也是父母膝下惟一的女儿。从小,冰心就被父母当做掌上明珠般疼爱。冰心的父亲谢葆璋是一位海军军官,虽说是行伍的军人,却有着宽厚乐观的性格和心胸。在家里,他是传播快乐的好父亲。有一次,冰心穿的鞋子有点紧,走起路来一瘸一拐。父亲见了,埋怨妻子说:“怎么给她穿小鞋了!”冰心母亲反驳道:“你会做,就给她做。”谢葆璋还真的拿起剪刀像模像样的剪鞋样,母女俩在旁边开心的大笑起来。

冰心父亲快乐灵活的处事态度给小冰心很强烈的心理暗示,使他能够在艰苦的环境中永葆一颗快乐向上的心。这恐怕冰心能够在历经磨难之后依然能够长寿的内在原因吧。

    快乐是一种能力,在何种境况下都能保持一种快乐的情绪需要足够的智慧和内心强大的力量。如果父母的内心足够强大,拥有足够的智慧,就会对孩子形成积极的暗示,从而培养孩子积极的生活态度。当孩子的大脑习惯于想快乐的事时,他们的神经系统便会习惯地令自己处于一种快乐的身心状态,这样,才能感知到周围世界的美好,继而带着健康的心态去营造自己成功的人生。 

 

   暗示教育课堂

对父母来说,能给孩子最好的礼物就是让他有感受快乐的能力。父母拥有这种能力,才能影响到孩子,给孩子积极的暗示,让他更快乐。

    为人父母,凡事要拿得起,放得下。不纠结在一些小事上,即使遇到了挫折磨难,不怨天尤人,不自怨自艾,能积极想办法解决问题。孩子在思维模式和处事态度上得到积极的暗示,一定会形成积极的人生观和价值观。放弃完美,不苛求自己。世上没有完美的人,千万不要求全责备自己

   学会自嘲,养成幽默风趣的说话习惯。比如爸爸长了啤酒肚,爸爸要开心地对孩子说:“瞧,我的肚子像不像大袋鼠!”孩子在语言风格上得到积极的暗示,学会用高级的幽默智慧为自己的人生增添快乐的元素。

    要多参加户外活动。喜欢户外运动的父母一定是健康快乐的。每到周末,我们可以选择爬山、游泳、打球、远足、快走等活动。不仅能增强体质,缓解压力,令我们笑口常开,更重要的还给孩子积极的暗示:拥有了健康的身体,才能拥有快乐的资本。

做一对快乐的父母,还需要修炼身心,读书看报、结交新友、奉献爱心、培养多种兴趣,用自己的一点一滴、一言一行暗示孩子,让他们拥有真正的快乐。

 

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