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发表时间:2015-05-31 21:28:19 295 1 1

   人生就像照镜子。

   心情不好的时候,不喜欢照镜子,因为你愁它也愁;心情好的时候,会在镜子前做出各种调皮的表情或妩媚的笑脸,你笑它也笑。细想,我们自己不也是一张镜子吗?心情好的时候,满眼看到的都是璀璨,心情不好的时候,入眼的都是凋敝。

   很喜欢在服装店照镜子,那里的镜子总会让你很自信,你忽然发现自己不用减肥,也能有模特的身材。不过,你心里明白,自己的体重还没有降到50公斤以下。任何虚伪的吹捧满足的是你的虚荣心,永远骗不了你的心。

   镜 子,只能照出人的一个侧面,无论怎么转身,呈现在镜子里的也只是对着镜子的那一面,我们极容易看到脸上的妆容化得如何,却极少有特异功能的人能看到自己后 背上的那个污点。尽管我们很努力的自我反思,也永远有无法或不敢触及的缺点,只有当我们洗净了耳朵,恭敬的倾听别人的意见,在我们背后放一面镜子,才能全 面地了解自己。

      极度愤怒的时候,会把镜子摔碎,可是,低头一看,每一块碎镜片都照出一个愤怒的你。你对它施以什么样的态度,它会加倍,甚至几百倍的奉还你。

      沐浴后,浴室里的镜子上会蒙上一层水汽,朦朦胧胧,像是雾里看花。你会发觉,这时候镜子中的你只显出最美的轮廓,,脸上的某些遗憾也因模糊而淡化了。人与人之间的交往,如果能保持一层水汽的距离,那么就不会有那么多的亲人反目、朋友疏离、恋人成仇。

      有机会照过哈哈镜。看似一样大的几面镜子,照出来的却是高矮胖瘦、形态各异。大笑之后,便有一丝感悟,当我们全身心的去做一件事,所得到的回馈可能与付出有很大的出入,有时可能得不到自己想要的,有时会有意想不到的收获,有时无心插柳,柳却能成荫。

     《白 雪公主》里有一面魔镜,不但能说话,还能对人做出评判,随时告诉王后谁是世界上最漂亮的女人。我们心中不也有这样一面魔镜吗?它时常在心里告诉你,你是强 大的,你是弱小的;你是有能力的,你是无能的……因为我们心里有这面魔镜,我们会根据它的判断变成强者或弱者,自信的或是自卑的……

      

         镜 子,你照,它便有你,你不照,它依然在那里,不离不弃;你繁盛,它照出你的繁盛,你消颓,它便照出你的消颓;你喜,它映出你的喜,你悲,它映出你的悲,你 淡然,它也淡然地看着你……纵然你穿越繁花似锦,经历风霜雪雨,它总是真实的在那里,不悲不喜。立于高峰不张扬,处于低谷不落魄,稍有浮躁,你便可以去照 照镜子。

        唐太宗说:“以铜为鉴,可正衣冠;以古为鉴,可知兴替;以人为鉴,可明得失。”我以为,以己为镜,可以知己,知心,知未来。

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