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王尔德说:“娶了情妇的男人,情妇的位置就空下来了。”再婚之后,再一次到了疲乏期,假如还是想要向外寻找解决的途径,就会陷入反复结婚又离婚的恶性循环。


心理引言:谁都可能产生出轨的念头,当一个人在关系中感到不快乐的时候。但是,真的出轨了就能一了百了么?根据英国最大的人际关系机构Relate的研究发现,百分之五十结束感情关系的人事后感到后悔。对于很多人来说,很多时候,出轨无法解决问题,只会造成新的问题。


避免自己出轨的四大重要策略:

1. 伴侣永远摆在第一位
一段感情中,要是一方或双方的重心放在工作、生意或小孩上,就极有可能有人出轨。这些固然重要,但是千万不要摆在生活的第一位。

2. 有些事只跟另一半说
没跟另一半说的隐私或亲密的想法,千万不要跟其他人分享。

 

3. 每天都跟对方沟通互动
每天跟伴侣沟通讨论的夫妻最少有不忠的情况发生,而且安全感最深。

4. 避免所有可能造成出轨的情况
可能让自己暂时受到其他人吸引的情况都要避免。这不代表自己的关系有问题,或必须找问题来解决,只是说你需要避开这些情况。
你做得对,出轨的确没什么好的
谁都可能产生出轨的念头,当一个人在关系中感到不快乐的时候。但是,真的出轨了就能一了百了么?根据英国最大的人际关系机构Relate的研究发现,百分之五十结束感情关系的人事后感到后悔。

 


对于很多人来说,很多时候,出轨无法解决问题,只会造成新的问题:
1. 旧问题:和现任缺乏激情,换了一个人只能短期解决,时间长了还是一样,又会想换人
大多数劈腿的人搞不清欲望、偷腥的刺激和爱情。出轨的行为非常自私,与其他人一对一的相处,而不考虑到现实生活──谁该刷马桶、谁该送小孩上钢琴课,或谁去倒垃圾等等。就算与出轨的对象结婚,让两人走在一起的欲望荷尔蒙在婚后的一到两年就会消失九成。届时刺激感消失,一切又回到现实。
王尔德说:“娶了情妇的男人,情妇的位置就空下来了。”再婚之后,再一次到了疲乏期,假如还是想要向外寻找解决的途径,就会陷入反复结婚又离婚的恶性循环。


2. 新问题1:失去身边朋友的好感,并且再婚后的人际关系也变复杂了
那些偷腥被抓的人要是离婚,会失去一半以上的朋友,差不多比例的资源,所以必须同时面对新的感情和已有的小孩、兄弟姊妹、父母、前妻/前夫和工作的同事,其中有些人可能会排斥这个新的伴侣。

3. 新问题2:重新适应另一个人,难度更大了
新的对象会有新的要求,年龄差距越大,那些问题也就越复杂。


写在后面:
很多时候,人们出轨的最初目的,并不是为了一个更可口的对象,而是为了躲开讨厌的现任。这就好办多了——在一段有人想出轨的关系中,总是有问题存在,也代表一方或双方都不愿意面对问题。因此,只要把视线从猎物身上移回伴侣身上,去想想哪里出了问题,你就不必再担心出轨的副作用会降临在你的头上,接下来你只需好好修复和伴侣的关系即可。

不管男女哪一方出轨,都是因为这段关系必须有所改变。重要的是去识别这些问题,并解决它们。因此,积极地去讨论沟通彼此的情绪和恐惧,时时保持关系亲密和谐,就可以有效防止出轨的情况发生。

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