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我是一名心理工作的“心理医生”,主要研究并面对人们在恋爱婚姻、工作学习、家庭亲子教育、生活矛盾中出现的一切问题;治疗“疑难杂症”以及“精神心理障碍疾病”。

经过多方面问题的组合并研究证明,最令人担忧的是人们对“心理健康意识概念不清”的原因,导致了“很多心理问题”和“重大疾病”的发生。

一、导致心理不健康的“根源”在哪里?

心理不健康的“根源”大部分在于:“家庭教育失误”产生的后果。单亲家庭,离婚、再婚;托养、寄养、隔代扶养;家长制、严厉不合情理的教育;夫妻关系不合,家庭矛盾纠纷;家长忙于工作,对孩子疏于管教,缺乏心灵沟通,使孩子从小养成了----自卑、懦弱、孤僻内向、缺乏自信;固执、犟强、执拗、纲烈的性格。以上内容,大致都是造成“心灵缺失”“心理不健康的主要原因”。

现如今,社会竞争力强,由于心理健康程度薄弱的孩子,虽然上进心很强,而且有满腹经文,只因胆怯,不善表达,失去了很多发挥、发展的机会,他们无法独立生存,只好把自己封闭起来,逃避工作、婚姻,靠父母养生度日,脱离了正常的生活规律,心理失去平衡,有很多年轻人心理扭曲、变态,精神失常,患了精神抑郁、痴呆、躁狂、焦虑症,不少人已经走上了自残、自杀、轻生的绝路......

二、过度的溺爱毁了孩子的前程

“性格是环境的结晶”人们的性格、能力都是靠父母亲从小培养出来的。人伦颠倒、脱离人性的教育,会使孩子心灵上从小抹去了人性化教育的机会。不良的品质和性格,会影响他们终身的前途和命运,不良的教育会让父母的爱付之东流,不可逆转,悔之莫及,即使花费了大量的时间、金钱,仍然买不住唤不回孩子那颗孤独冷漠无情的心。常言道“敬子如杀子”。很多家长对孩子只重视物质生活的供给,却不知道孩子心灵的成长中还需要更多的需求和关怀。咨询工作中,遇到最多的问题就是:----很多家庭都是“独生子女”,家长把孩子当做生命至宝,为了孩子,不惜一切代价,要什么,给什么,百依百顺,什么事情都替他做,一点苦头和委屈都不能让孩子忍受,错误、缺点一概包容。岂不知道,这种过分的溺爱会让孩子养成----依赖、虚荣、仇恶、怨恨、自私、霸道的习性,常常自我为中心,高傲自大,目无尊长、不懂得感恩、孝顺、团结、互助,友爱、创造的心,把父母当成了“贪求欲望、索取利益的工具,当欲望得不到满足时,就会反目为仇,一点不顺心就发脾气,闹情绪,否则就离家出走,闯祸端、惹麻烦成了他们的家常便饭,父母明知道孩子错了也不敢说、不敢碰,还要给孩子低头说好话,把孩子教育的缺少人情味,不知道怎样去理解、关心、体贴、尊重父母,只知道挑毛病找麻烦,一切都是别人的错。

这种被惯成了家庭“小皇帝”的思想作风,“衣来伸手,饭来张口”“除过脾气大,什么都没有”,唯我独尊、自私自利,缺乏仁义道德观念的思想观念,直接影响到未来的前程,他们这种高傲的思想,看什么都不顺心,无法交结良友,长大以后,无法适应社会,怎样能够适应社会不断更新的时代潮流,又如何适应大自然的气候呢? 岂不是害了孩子一辈子前途吗?

在强大繁荣富强的社会竞争中,心理健康程度强硬者成了社会的主流;那些内心脆弱,心理健康程度薄弱的孩子长大以后,已经丧失了独立生存的能力,已被社会淘汰。在金钱物质基础教育下的孩子不但没有成才,反而成了家庭和社会的灾难。

明智的家长都会积极地很好配合教育,使孩子很快有了良好的变化;而不明智的家长非常护短,不认识自身的错误,坦护包癖孩子的缺点,一直到孩子闯下了祸端才知道后悔,可是什么都来不及了,只能让悔恨的泪水淹没自己那颗痛苦无助的心啊!

三、心理不健康的人们会被社会淘汰

由于竞争激烈,社会中涌现出了大批量“啃老族”已被社会的人群。由于他们的心理健康程度差,性格内向、缺乏自信、自卑懒散、情绪低落等,整天沉醉于虚拟的网络、或自闭在自己灰暗无光的世界里。有些人是高傲自大、目中无人,看谁都不顺眼,用高傲的心把自己孤立起来;有些人缺乏自信心,无法与人沟通,不能融入社会,依靠父母而生存,失去独立自主的的能力,甚至连找对象、找工作的勇气都没有,怨天尤人,动不动就对家里人发脾气,总认为,别人都对不起他,从不在自己身上找问题,尤其是那些高端文化层次的群体,优秀的大学生、研究生,学校的尖子,出类拔萃的“栋梁”。他们从小聪明伶俐,在家里受父母的高级款待,娇生惯养,在老师、同学眼里又是佼佼者,从小到大都是在手心里捧着没人敢碰的红人,一路顺风,刺激、挫折都与他无缘。多年来,他们只为考试成绩而忙忙碌碌,其他方面都没有时间考虑,一旦毕业离开学校走入社会,则会手忙脚乱不知所措,精神上有了极大的落差,工作不顺心,高不成,低不就;事不随心愿却又无法接受,人际交往便成了他们严重的“心理障碍”。

由于种种原因促使精神病患者人数逐年上升,来自各行各业,尤其是20岁左右的孩子,大多是在校的学生,优秀生、大学生、研究生、他们本该是家庭的骄傲、国家的栋梁、未来的人才,因患了此病,却成了“精神残疾”丧失一切前途,成了家庭的累赘、社会的包袱,他们多么需要挽救啊!

一切财富来自于健康的心理!心理健康比身体健康更重要,只有心理健康身体才能健康!心身健康才能拥有一切!

四、精神疾病的发展趋向 

目前、精神病属于世界医学史上至今无法攻破的一道难题,例为世界第二难症,治愈率非常低,大部分患者无法治愈,终身靠用镇静催眠类的药物维持控制,随时即可复发,使他们丧失一切前途,成为终身残疾,部分患者靠用铁链、绳索捆绑、终身囚禁,过着惨不忍睹的痛苦生活。真是“一人患病全家受害,四邻遭殃,街坊邻居不得安宁,妻离子散者时常可见,家破人亡者时有发生”。他们四处求医,八方治疗,得到的是一次又次的失败与绝望,治疗与复发并存,耗尽钱财、倾家荡产也无济于事。他们整天过着痛不堪言、悲痛欲绝的痛苦生活。“患者痛苦难当,亲人痛断肝肠”。不但自己丧失前途,并且给家庭成员的生命安全造成严重危险,及经济损失和严重的精神负担;给社会也造成了很大影响。“此病不但危害性及高,更重要的是遗传性很强,代代相传或隔代相传永无停息,所以说,把好自身健康关是非常重要的环节”。

五、怎样预防、远离“精神疾病”?

从心理学的角度:精神病属于----思想病,它是心理问题的发展,也属于‘心理障碍性疾病’,因情绪不佳、郁闷、生气、惊吓、挫折、精神刺激,胡思乱想、用脑过度所导致的疾病。其“症状”只是----心理问题的表现,一般用仪器检查不出来,只能从言语、行动中所表现,但是非常痛苦,从大的说,精神病是终身无法治愈、精神智残的一种疾病,属于“世界第二难症”;从小的说,就是情绪不佳、郁闷生气、钻牛角尖、心理找不平衡点而得出的“思想病”。

“心病还需心來医、最好的药引是自己”。当你知道了生病的原因,平时就应该保持一个平衡、健康、良好的心态,遇到问题困扰情绪的时候,想办法化解矛盾,如果个人无法解决,可以寻求心理辅导老师的帮助,争取早日脱离痛苦。(从情绪不佳、失眠、焦虑、郁闷的时候就应该积极配合治疗,则可以预防、杜绝精神疾病或其他疾病的发生与发展)。

自古到今,由于心理问题的困扰,造成了无数个人间悲剧的发生……他们的父母悲痛欲绝、悔恨莫及、泣不成声,给我们后人敲响了人生不可不再醒悟的警钟……家庭关系不合、夫妻矛盾纠纷、家庭破散、离婚率步步增高,子女心理健康教育……面对一系列问题,不得不令人感叹、反省、深思啊!

 

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