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发表时间:2015-08-06 14:55:35 358 0 1

在日常聊天的时候,我们经常会说别自恋了……生活里总有一些人比较自恋,症状轻微的不影响人际交往,但是自恋症状严重的,让身边的人苦不堪言,尤其是新交往的朋友,严重影响到人际关系。日常生活中我们怎么样与自恋型人打交道呢?如何应对?今天小编给大家分享一下,自恋型人格表现症状,与自恋型人格打交道的方法。


对批评反应强烈

不论是以建议还是商量的方式,只要对他们的行为或性格提出了负面评价,他们就会奋起反对。在面对他们自身的弱点或者错误时,他们会想方设法地推翻别人提出的论据,甚至不惜撒谎。但这并不代表他们的自我(ego)非常强大,相反,他们的自我可能很脆弱,所以他们会如此在意别人的批评,小心翼翼地建立起一堵心墙来防范任何潜在的伤害。

◆应对: 闲谈之中,不要轻易对他们提出负面性的评价,也没有必要对他们的私生活提意见,这只会让他们对你不满。如果工作中一定要提出负面性的意见或者评价,请一定要收集好论据,让他们无话可说。



喜欢炫耀和夸耀自我

虽然表面上,他们不能忍受别人的意见或者批评,但是内心深处,他们却十分自卑。即使他们身处高位(例如在公司中有较高的职位或者在家庭中是长辈),他们也会不停地证明自己的“优越”,通常是通过炫耀的方式。只有这样,他们内心深处那个“懦弱的小孩”才会感到安全。为了掩饰自卑,他们常常表现得装腔作势,并且非常喜欢那些巴结他们或者溜须拍马的人。

◆应对: 面对那些喜欢炫耀自己的车、房、收入、学历甚至经历的人,礼貌性地夸赞几句就好,他们并非想给你难堪,只是为了满足自己弱小的自尊,没有必要因此和他们抬杠,一句小小的质疑都能够点燃战火。

独断专权

因为不能忍受他人提出的意见或者建议,所以他们通常都固执己见、独断专权,哪怕是一件小事也必须按照他们的想法来实施,不论他们的选择是否正确。有时候,即使他们知道要付出代价,也坚持按照自己的方式来。尤其是当他们的自我形象或者地位受到了挑战时,他们就会更固执,从而来防止他人的入侵或者背叛。

◆应对: 由于自恋的人只是为了坚持自己而反对他人,所以要抢占先机,先提出你的计划,再征得他们的同意,这比推翻他们的计划效果要好。

推卸错误或者责任


人无完人,自恋型人格障碍的人虽然也知道这一点,但是在面对自己的缺点时,还是忍不住否认,并且会把这些缺点归咎于别人,好保护他们内心脆弱的自我意象。如果你善意地提出“不妨加强一下这个设计的实用性”,他们可能会反击“你上次的作品也不太实用”;如果你公事公办地提出“你的报告中有错误”,他们可能会立即回嘴“如果你来做这份报告可能出错更多”。

◆应对: 即使他们知道错在自己,也会习惯性地攻击你来保护自我,所以没有必要对他们的指责感到生气。如果回嘴,那势必将展开一场争吵。如果工作中必须要让对方改正错误,那么达到最终目的就好,最好明确指出对方需要改变的地方,而不是泛泛地说他做的不好,让他改进。

人际界线模糊

他们并不清楚自己应该在哪儿“住手”,别人又从哪里开始掌握主导权,因为他们把其他人看成了自己的“附属”,认为自己是独一无二和最重要的,而且自己的需求也应该首先被满足。人际界线模糊不论是在工作中,还是从选择饭馆或者度假地点等小事儿中都能够体现出来。他们不会考虑其他人也有独立的思想或者需求,甚至认为别人的优势应该为自己服务。例如,有车的朋友就应该送他回家,身处高位的朋友就应该帮他安排好的工作。总之,他们需要什么,会毫不犹豫地从他人处获取。

◆应对: 保护好自己的利益。他们的索取是无止境的而你不能无限地退让或者满足他们。适当的时候,明确地拒绝他们,让他们知道你的底线在哪里。即使是家人,也应该有一定的人际界线。



自恋型人格障碍被收录到了美国第五版《精神疾病诊断与统计手册》中,也就是说,自恋到了一定程度,也是一种精神疾病。在手册中,自恋型人格障碍的症状包括了:自我意识过高、无上限地幻想成功、权力、爱情等,认为自己对其他人或者情况是独一无二的、极度追求他人的崇拜、常利用他人、缺乏同情心、常嫉妒他人或者认为他人嫉妒自己、行为傲慢粗鲁。看看这些症状,就知道与自恋到病态的人相处绝对是矛盾不断,困难重重。简而言之,他们会极度扩大自己的价值,认为自己是独一无二的人才,别人如果无法理解自己,那是因为他们过于平庸。因此,如果在生活中发现有人有这方面的倾向,那最好与他们保持适当的距离,如果无法躲开,那也需要做好准备,能够在矛盾到来时,尽量从容应对。

日常生活中我们总是会与不同的人打交道,自恋型人格的也偶尔会遇到,上述分享的应对方法,可以运用到实际生活中解决难题。

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