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结婚的前一天晚上,妈妈对我说,当初嫁给你爸爸的时候啊,家里什么都没有,虽然穷,却过得很满足也很幸福……

 

我们结婚了

说到结婚这件事,我都觉得好笑。我们是两个不折不扣的穷光蛋,穷得叮当响,但两个穷光蛋还是决定要结婚。真的没有钱,所以决定省略那些繁文缛节,因为任何一个环节都需要金钱支持,我们最缺的就是这个。

2007年3月29日,我和大龙手牵手走进了民政局,领了那张见证我们幸福的大红证书。然后,我去单位给同事们发点喜糖。晚上回家做了几个好菜,和双方父母一起吃了顿饭,就把婚给结了。

我们还买了一对银戒指。哇,其实银子看上去也很像铂金啊,赚到了赚到了。其实,我们只是想用戒指把对方套住,同时又是广而告之:这位同志现在有人要了!

现在,老公常常会问我后悔吗?我真的不知道我有什么好后悔的。难道就为了他不能给予我那些身外之物我就后悔?我告诉他:我真不后悔嫁给你,希望你也能让我一辈子都不后悔。

老公来自鲁西南的一个小城市,家庭条件不好。我和老公谈朋友,最早要追溯到大学时。他是班里的文娱委员,我也是班干部,很多活动都是我们一起组织的,很自然地就走到了一起。

老公的歌唱得很不错,我一直这样认为的,尤其是唱情歌。那时我并不知道,我们最终的结果如何,只是我觉得他这个人很可靠,很会疼人,一定会对我一心一意的。后来证明我的判断是对的。

毕业后,我在四川一个三线城市找到了不错的工作。老公为了和我在一起,放弃了老家的工作,通过考研,来到我身边。我们的生活压力很大——双方父母的赡养、他的学费和生活费……

所以,我们根本没钱买房买车,也没有钱办一个像样的婚礼。老妈说由家里出钱办酒席,但是我们也不小了,父母的钱不能乱用,酒席就省了吧。

刚结婚那会儿,我跟老公开玩笑说:我们现在最值钱的就是两辆自行车了,干脆我们骑着车流浪去吧!老公听了,把我揽到怀里,轻声说:“我一定会给你补办一个风光的婚礼!”

其实,我觉得这些根本不重要,只要每天他都在我身边就好了,何必要求那么多呢?爱情有时就是简单的1+1=2,没那么复杂。

地震来了

老公研究生毕业后,找了一份不错的工作。但是我们家底薄、负担重,所以依旧买不起房,买不起车。我们想等经济条件好一点再考虑要孩子,可是宝宝却在不经意间到来了。

我从同事那拿了几本书,给自己恶补有关怀孕、育儿的知识。老公原来不会做饭,为了我和肚子里的孩子,很努力地学,还向同事请教。

刚知道自己怀孕时,是一种无法言说的情绪——既喜悦,又担心,更多的是焦虑。早孕反应让我吃足了苦头,那时我基本上只能喝粥,吃别的一准儿会吐掉。

为了不耽误上班,老公每天很早就起床,给我熬粥,然后盛好,端到我面前。那种感觉真是太好了。遇到心情不好的时候,老公就给我讲笑话,逗我乐。

随着孩子在肚子里一天天长大,我双腿也浮肿得越来越厉害,到后来弯不下腰,都是老公给我洗脚,给我按摩,真的照顾得无微不至。

那时,我觉得自己特别地幸福,做个母亲真好。

因为早孕反应比较重,我上班又远,再三考虑后,选择了辞职,在家安胎。那是2008年的5月,距离“5·12”大地震只有一个星期。

在没有经历地震前,我们对地震没有那么深刻的感觉,灾难真的来临时,才知道是多么地可怕。地震是一块试金石,试出了彼此在对方心中的分量。

5月12日那天,我有点发低烧,在床上躺着休息。地震的时候,我在床上躺着,突然感觉到房子晃动得很厉害,家里的吊灯都掉在了地上,砸得碎。

那一刻,我真是害怕极了,赶紧缩在床下,动都不敢动。这时候,老公冲开已经变形的门,抱起我就往外跑。后来才知道,他在单位不放心生病的我,途中溜回家看看,走到楼下的时候突然地震了,想到我还在家里,就发了疯似的往里冲。

你想那个时候,所有人都是往外跑,就他不管不顾地往里跑。我真是特别感动,觉得这个男人,我没白嫁。

那段时间,我们每一天都在一起。地震的当天晚上,我烧得更厉害了。天上下着暴雨,老公撑着伞送我去医院看病。当天预报还有余震,所有住院的病人全部疏散回家了,我被安置在帐篷里输液。

在帐篷里,突然大地又开始晃动了,大家都尖叫着跑出去。我挂着水,没有办法跑,我让老公跑,他说:跑什么,你还在这里呢,我陪着你,不怕……

宝宝来了

2009年2月,我们的宝宝出生了,是个可爱的小女生。

经常看见网上很多妈妈说养个宝宝要多贵多贵,我真没觉得啊。一岁前她都是吃母乳,衣服是老公同事的女儿穿小的,尿不湿也只是每天晚上睡觉的时候才用两片。

大一点能吃辅食的时候,我每天煮一只鸡蛋,把蛋黄碾碎了给她吃:再大一点,大人吃什么她就跟着吃什么,一样很好很健康啊。

女儿半岁的时候,老公有机会调去成都工作,工资可以提高百分之三十。老公特别心动,回来征求我的意见。我说,每个月多1500元钱,和老婆分居,离孩子那么远,你觉得划算吗?老公想了想,拒绝了这个机会。

一年之后,代替他外调的同事晋升成了主任,薪水自然也跟着水涨船高。我问老公会不会觉得我们拖了你的后腿?老公笑了,说:傻瓜,你把一辈子交给我都不后悔,我不过是没有当主任,有什么可后悔的?

之所以一直没有上班,是因为孩子没有人带。现在请个阿姨真是很贵,不过我在家里也没闲着,开了家淘宝网店,住的地方附近有家外贸服装厂,我没事就带着女儿去淘点既便宜质量又好的外贸童装、下午女儿睡觉的时候,我就打理自己的小店,每件衣服赚几块钱,也很乐呵。

我都想好了,女儿上了幼儿园,我就有更多自己的时间了,那时候,把这家网店的规模弄大一点,一定会很不错的,至少能把闺女的幼儿园学费给赚回来。

婆婆走了

2010年8月,发生了一件大事。老公的妈妈因为肝癌去世了。之前,她住了一个多月的医院,花了将近8万元钱。我们的家底又给掏空了,还借了外债。不过我们不后悔,因为这钱应该花,必须花。

婆婆走了以后,老公的大哥不愿意赡养没有任何收入的公公,我们便把公公接到了四川。可是公公在四川一点也住不惯,每天都吵着要回家。

于是我们又把公公给送了回去,托一个远方亲戚照看,每个月给人家支付生活费。每个星期,我们都会给公公打电话,女儿会给爷爷唱歌,给爷爷讲故事,老爷子的笑声我离好远都听得到。

老公时常感叹,自己家里条件不好,没能给媳妇点什么,反而还给我们的小家增加了那么多负担。我却觉得:这事摊上谁都会这么干,谁家没老人呢?况且我爸爸去年右腿骨折,是老公端屎端尿地照顾了一个月,我妈逢人就夸,这个女婿比儿子还管用。

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