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【王老师分享】家长把孩子送去网瘾学校,到底以为孩子能在里面“学到”什么?

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那些把孩子送去网瘾学校的家长,到底以为孩子能在里面“学到”什么?
打一打关一关就会“学好”了?呵呵呵呵,怎么可能。又不是送去做前脑叶白质切除术。
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美国心理协会(APA)
不赞同打孩子。为什么?因为综合文献研究结果,棍棒底下出来的孩子智商会下降,会更焦虑,更抑郁,自尊更低,更具攻击性。
如果是一个月轻轻打一次屁股这种程度的体罚,还不至于给孩子造成太大影响。但超过这个标准,到了中等程度及以上的体罚,就会给孩子留下【长期负面影响】,削弱孩子的学业成绩和身心健康。
不但如此,打完孩子后,孩子还会再犯同样的错误,因为【家长并没有教给孩子怎么做才是对的】,孩子未必会学家长嘴里说的,但一定会学家长是怎么做的。家长是怎么做的?打。孩子学到什么?当然也是打。所以孩子攻击性会上升。研究还显示,即使家长打孩子打得越来越凶,也不会阻止孩子再犯同样的错误。
(P.S. 孩子犯错时,研究认为最有效的纠正方法是“替代行为正强化”positive reinforcement for alternative behaviors。这个以后有时间再写…… _(:3」∠)_)
有些家长会说,“我爹妈以前也打我,我现在还不是好好的。”
引用一下APA官网上Dr. Kazdin的回答:“也有些人吸烟并且活到了100岁。但‘吸烟会导致早死’的研究结论依然成立。万事总有例外,但例外不会改变大体趋势。”
何况家长怎么知道自己“好好的”呢?要不要去听取一下周围意见先?要不要跟“别人家的父母”比一比先?就算退一万步,家长自己真的“好好的”,也不能因此就认定自己孩子也会是“体罚出英才”的例外。你的孩子并不是你,你们是完全不同的人。
总之,APA的建议是,不要体罚孩子。
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说回那种封闭式戒网瘾学校。
自己打屁股都不应该,你还把孩子送去让别人往死里打?这是父母吗?这是八辈子仇人吧。
孩子在那样的集中营里会学到什么?
一,父母是不值得信任的。任何把自己送到这种人间地狱里的人,都是不值得信任的。
二,父母不爱自己。连自己的死活都不顾的人,不可能真爱自己。父母需要的只是一个听话的孩子,不是真实的自己。
三,有钱有权有力量,真的是可以为所欲为的。
四,在还没钱没权没力量之前,要假装。要装得能骗过所有人,甚至自己。
五,等到足够有力量(包括心理力量和物质力量)那天,逃走(包括自杀,那是彻底逃离这个世界的办法),或者复仇。
这就是一个孩子,在那种地方能学到的事。
Gershoff, E. T. (2002). Corporal punishment by parents and associated child behaviors and experiences: a meta-analytic and theoretical review. Psychological bulletin, 128(4), 539.
Gershoff, E. T., & Grogan-Kaylor, A. (2016). Spanking and child outcomes: Old controversies and new meta-analyses.
Parenting Expert Warns Against Physical Punishment. (2010). Apa.org. Retrieved 29 October 2017, from O

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