十条心理学知识,让你内心变得更为强大!


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1、【不要因为周围的人都恋爱了,才去恋爱】

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当我们发现身边的朋友都开始谈恋爱了的时候,在这样的环境中,自己也想找个人谈恋爱。这也是同调行为的一种体现。当周围朋友中谈恋爱的人数逐渐增多时,人的同调行为会逐渐转变成一种强迫观念,认为自己不谈恋爱不行。结果降低了自己对恋爱对象的理想或标准。

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2、【打针时会看着针头的人请举手】

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打针时最好用眼睛看着打针,这样会少痛一些。如果把针头进行视觉放大,效果会更好。

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3、【男人心底的6个心理秘密】

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①男人的痛苦往往只有他自己知道。

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②男人都有向女人倾诉的潜在欲望。

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③离异的男人通常不会独身太久。

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④在未婚男人的心目中,姑娘就是姑娘;在已婚男人的眼里,姑娘就是女人。

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⑤男人感到最惬意的事情就是被女人理解。

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⑥男人都喜欢会撒娇的女人。

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4、【小癖好里看性格】

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①喜欢把玩头发,表示富于神经质,对任何事都敏感;

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②一边讲话一边把弄头发的女孩较为任性;

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③拉耳朵僻好,表现出他想打断对方话题的欲求;

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④喜欢用手掩嘴的人,个性内向并且较为随和;

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⑤讲话时,以手掩嘴的女性,具有想吸引对方的意图;

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⑥以双手托下巴的僻好,表示有掩饰弱点的意图。

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5、【心理小技巧】

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①.男性鼻子下方有海绵体,摸鼻子代表想要掩饰某些内容;

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②.手放在眉骨附近表示羞愧;

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③.明知故问的时候眉毛微微上扬;

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④.如果对方对你的质问表示不屑,通常质问会是真的;

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⑤.当面部表情两边不对称的时候,极有可能他们的表情是装出来的;

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⑥.抿嘴两次,典型的模棱两可;

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⑦.虚情假意不会有眨眼

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6、爱听爵士乐的人想象力丰富。天性友好;爱听古典音乐的人安静、友好、责任心强、闷骚;爱听摇滚乐的没有责任感情绪不稳定;爱听流行音乐传统。善交友;爱听饶舌音乐有运动天赋。自尊心强但缺少纪律性;爱听电子音乐的让人有点神经过敏。

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7、【心理小语】

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①.如果你在错误的路上,奔跑也没有用。

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②.如果发生了坏事情,请忽略这件事。

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③.人性中总是有喜欢把简单的事情复杂化的不良成分。

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④.要赢得好的声誉需要20年,而要毁掉它,5分钟就够。

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⑤.吸引我从事工作的原因之一是,它可以让你过你自己想过的生活。你没有必要为成功而打扮。

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8、【比尔盖茨对青年人的五大忠告】

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①社会不公是客观存在,不要想着去改造它而要适应它。

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②社会只在意你的成就而不是你的自尊,你越强调自尊,成功的路就越窄。

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③社会的每一个地方都要分等排名。

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④陷入困境时不要抱怨而要默默地吸取教训重新奋起。

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⑤不要在背后批评别人,尤其不能说老板无能无知。

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9、【中国人“十大口头禅”】

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按排名分别是:“随便”(10.5%)、“神经病”或“有病啊”(8.1%)、“不知道”(7.2%)、脏话一类(6.7%)、“郁闷”(6.5%)、“我晕”(5.6%)、“无聊”(5.5%)、“不是吧?”或“真的假的?”(4.8%)、“挺好的”(4.6%)、“没意思”(4.6%)

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10、【心理科普:越是拥有越是不满足】

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人们在拥有了一件新的物品后,会想不断配置与其相适应的物品,以达到心理上平衡,这在心理学叫“配套效应”。

 

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