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作家罗曼·罗兰说过,男女之交慎之始,可是现实生活中往往是女性容易回味初恋,而男性痴情的不多,总是把目标放在下一个,展现雄性的魅力!

夜深人静时梦境揭示了部分真实。

我们在梦中会常常与过去的恋人拥抱,来实现自己未被满足的愿望。

这是潜意识自我保护的一种释放,因为潜意识不接纳否定的概念。

未被满足的愿望一直固着在我们心里,犹如种下了一个种子,期待着生根发芽。

而人生的第一次恋爱,无论什么时候开始,只要没有结果,我们都难免不了去回味、去总结。

夜深人静时、喝酒玩乐时我们容易失态,要么黯然神伤,要么酒后吐真言。

如果是早恋,那对我们的伤害可能更大。

早恋的人分开的原因更多的不是来自自身而是来自外来的力量特别是双方父母的干预,有的孩子比较顺从默认父母的安排,有的孩子比较叛逆,反其道而行之,最终发现所追求来的恋人并不是完美的,追悔莫及。

曾经有女孩子早恋后因为不再是处女怕被人耻笑,明明已经知道对方是社会的不良少年,仍然执意与对方结婚,后来生完孩子不到三个月就离婚。先去酒吧坐台,后来又换了不少职业,毁了自己和孩子的一生。

而因为父母的干预所导致的双方分开看似没有出现不好的结果,却在彼此的心灵上种下了一个毒瘤,这个毒瘤会时时冒出来责问当事人,为什么自己当时如此软弱,放弃了那么美好的爱情?如果当年没有放弃,现在会不会过得幸福一点?

最糟的一种情况时彼此从来没有好好说过再见。在暗恋的双方或者单方,对方会一直出现在梦里,我们有时候遇到事情容易声嘶力竭,容易情绪激动、比较暴躁而找不到原因。

我们明明很想好好爱自己,可是好像就是缺乏这种能力,我们总是想得到生命中重要他人的承认或者认可,而对方却离我们那么遥远,我们一次次出格,只是为了让对方看到或者知道,只是想证明自己的生命是重要的,是值得被爱的。

王阳明先生说我们每一个人心性都是圆满具足的,都是具有爱人和自爱的能力的。

可是我们的生命中为何欠缺那么多,我们需要如何来补足?

真正能够补足我们的不是早恋的对象。

最滋养我们的是我们的伴侣。

原生家庭中父母扮演的角色是以分离来表达智慧的爱的。

如果我们做不到与原生家庭父母很好的分离,我们的生命难以得到真正的绽放,很容易陷入到各种痛苦和纠结之中。

当我们以缺的姿态出现在社会中时,我们的使命就是寻找生命的另一半,然后彼此滋养,共同磨掉我们的菱角,实现生命的大圆满。‘

生命的大圆满包括幸福的家庭和成功的事业。

我们常常说成家立业。当我们有家了,我们就会慢慢忘掉离开家的孤独和寂寞,在彼此相爱中找到自己灵魂的伴侣。

当成家以后,由于我们彼此都带有菱角,因为亲密关系我们又无法逃离彼此,所以我们常常用彼此伤害的方式来找到自我认同感。

其实自我认同感不是来自于外面,而是来自于自己的内心。

有人做事让人相信和放心。

有人做事让人担心和顾虑。‘

其实是我们内在处在缺的状态。

当我们的内在充足了,我们外在的幸福和财富就会显化,从而让我们身边的人更加爱自己!

 

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